Monday, April 22, 2013

Mother's Grace (in memory of Gertrude Michaud) dated April 22, 2013 at Rose Hill


Mother's Grace

Today we are having a memorial service for our mother Gertrude Michaud - the mother of 6 children, 15 grandchildren, 18 great grandchildren, and 7 great-great-grandchildren.

In regard to the grace that comes from our mothers, the Bible says children go through four stages of mother’s grace falling on them.

First, knitting stage

Psalms 139:13 reads, “For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother's womb.”

Notice two words: create and knit. Creation is different from knitting.
Creation is to cause something or someone to come into being out of nothing.

knitting refers to making something or someone out of something or someone; it stands for making a fabric or garment by intertwining yard or thread in a series of connected loops.

God created your inmost being. Inmost being refers to your spiritual being. This spiritual being features the image of God built within you. This inner being came directly from God. This being refers to the spiritual you. So each of us here carries God's spiritual finger prints.

God knitted you in your mother's womb. Here this 'you' refers to the physical you. The Bible calls our body a 'garment'. God did the knitting this body in mother's womb.

God knit Bunny Michaud Phillip Michaud, and all 6 children in the womb of Gertrude Michaud. As I see her children, I recognize her daughters are beautiful her sons are all handsome.

The Bible (Isaiah 53:2b) says Jesus had no beauty or majesty to attract us to him, nothing in his appearance that we should desire him. I think Jesus was not physically attractive primarily because Mary his mother was not that much attractive. But look at Gertrude! Isn’t she beautiful?

Aside from the physical beauty remember the labor pain she had to undergo. After 280 days of pregnancy she went through the labor to give birth to her children.

So we are all thankful to the Lord for our mothers to allow us to come into being.

Second, nursing stage

1 Thessalonians 2:7 reads, "But we were gentle among you, like a mother caring for her little children."

I met Gertrude and had time to have fellowship with her while she was in Long Beach. And I could see that she is a gentle woman. She carried a gentle smile. She talked to me softly and tenderly. I could imagine how she could take care of her children, softly and tenderly.

I had a fellowship with Philip, Brian, Roger, and Tim. Philip was kind in talking to me about the air-conditioning, especially how the air duct works. I think his tenderness came from Gertrude.

I also remember Brian. He is a hardworking yet a gently caring plumber. He came and fixed plumbing problems at my house and at my church. And he worked tirelessly. And his hard working spirit came from his caring spirit, and he inherited his hardworking spirit from his mother

I have deep respect for the war generation for they know what sacrifice means. During the WWII at the age of 20 Gertrude fell in love Maurice. She married Maurice Michaud while the WWII (1939-1945) was still raging (March 13, 1943). Her husband Maurice is an American patriot, so right after the marriage he left home and went to fight for the nation in WWII. Her first child Bunny was born while her husband went out to fight the battle. Life after the WWII was not easy. Yet, along with Maurice she worked tirelessly at a farm at a restaurant and at a factory to support her children.

And we thank God for providing us with a sacrificial mother Gertrude.

Third, weaning stage

Psalms 131:2 says, "But I have stilled and quieted my soul; like a weaned child with its mother, like a weaned child is my soul within me."

Here 'weaned child' refers to the grownups. Thanks to the mother's care they now know how to take care of themselves. So they are no longer crybabies.

This means we the grownups owe our mother for the stillness and quietness of our soul.

For this reason it has been said, "The guests of wedding ceremony are primarily parents and their relatives, whereas the guests of the funeral service are primarily their children." And as we keep this memorial service, we thank God for our mothers who bore us so we would no longer be crybabies. May the Lord help us to remember this mother's grace so we too would take good care of the children with grace.

Fourth, wake up stage

John 11:11 says, “After he had said this, he went on to tell them, "Our friend Lazarus has fallen asleep; but I am going there to wake him up."”

Now Gertrude is interned at the same location where Maurice already rests.

Maurice was the foundation of her family’s spiritual connection with God. She inspired the family to attend the Sunday worship regularly. She at times led family Bible readings at home. She practiced prayer on a regular basis. And now as our Lord Jesus said, like Lazarus Gertrude has fallen asleep.

Our physical departure from this world is not the end. It looks forward to the hope of resurrection to come.

In regard to Lazarus who had fallen asleep, Jesus said, "I am going there to wake him up." This miracle is the preview of the call to come for in John 5:28 it is written: "Do not be amazed at this, for a time is coming when all who are in their graves will hear his voice.” Jesus further says in John 6:39-40, " And this is the will of him who sent me, that I shall lose none of all that he has given me, but raise them up at the last day. For my Father's will is that everyone who looks to the Son and believes in him shall have eternal life, and I will raise him up at the last day."

So there is a wakeup call to come. Then we all who put trust in Jesus shall meet again with great joy.

Prayer: Our heavenly Father, thank you for sending your one and only Son Jesus as our Lord Jesus. Thank you for your loving care through the Mother Gertrude for us gathered here. In Jesus' name 

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